Two Day Couples Therapy Intensive

The real work of a relationship is not occasional, or even daily: It’s minute-to-minute. In this triggered moment right now, which path am I going to take? Rather than being overridden by your history, you can stop, pause, and choose. ~ Terry Real

Couples Intensive: A Space to Deepen Intimacy and Connection

Grounded in the principles of Terry Reals, Relational Life Therapy, this immersive process invites you to move beyond surface patterns into the deeper truths that shape your relationship. Together, we identify the adaptive strategies that once protected you but now create distance between you and your partner. We practice replacing those loosing strategies with relational integrity, empathy, and skillful repair. Through relational stance identification, somatic mindfulness, Inner Child Work, and skill building, couples develop the tools to speak with courage, listen with empathy, and reconnect from the heart.

This experience is for couples on the brink as well as couples who desire to deepen their connection and cultivate lasting intimacy. Whether you’re a newer couple or long-time partners looking to reset your relationship, this work is designed to support you in a clearer understanding of your relationship.

As a somatic and trauma informed therapist I also utilize somatic and embodied awareness and practices to connect the body to relational work. It is tough to build lasting change using only cognitive awareness. When we learn to utilize the body in our relational recovery it becomes easier to create changes where it feels impossible, to access our own desire, and to feel into a more intimate relational experience.

The Three Phases of Relational Transformation

  1. Waking Up
    We begin by identifying the patterns that keep you stuck — the ways each partner protects, defends, or withdraws. This is the awakening phase.

  2. Healing & Transformation
    We move beneath the surface to meet the pain and tenderness under those patterns. Through trauma-informed therapy and inner child work, we explore the root causes that shaped your relational style, creating space for compassion and repair. Here we will also implement somatic practice to deepen the transformational process.

  3. Relational Skills for Life
    Finally, we build the tools for sustainable connection — learning communication, boundary, and repair practices that support ongoing growth and intimacy long after the intensive ends.

Your Questions, Answered

  • Many couples seek an intensive when they have reached a crossroads. You may feel exhausted by recurring patterns, uncertain about the future of your relationship, or afraid that you've run out of options.

    This intensive is not designed to persuade you to stay together or separate. Rather, it offers a dedicated space to slow down, understand the dynamics that have brought you here, and explore what is possible with honesty, compassion, and clarity. Some couples leave with a renewed commitment and practical tools for repair. Others gain confidence and peace in making difficult decisions about the next chapter of their lives. The intention is not a predetermined outcome, but a more conscious one.

  • Your safety is of utmost importance.

    If there is ongoing physical violence, coercive control, intimidation, threats, stalking, or a significant fear for your safety, this intensive may not be appropriate at this time. Couples work can sometimes increase risk when active abuse is present.

    If you are unsure whether what you are experiencing constitutes abuse, I encourage you to reach out for an individual consultation. Together, we can determine whether this intensive is an appropriate fit or whether another level of support would better serve your wellbeing and safety.

  • This is incredibly common.

    Couples often arrive with different levels of hope, motivation, or certainty. One partner may feel eager to repair the relationship, while the other may feel skeptical, guarded, or emotionally exhausted. You do not need to be equally enthusiastic to benefit from this work. A willingness to be curious, honest, and engaged in the process is enough.

  • Not at all.

    Some couples seek an intensive because they are facing significant challenges. Others come because they want to strengthen an already meaningful relationship, improve communication, navigate life transitions, deepen intimacy, or interrupt patterns before they become more entrenched.

  • Why choose an intensive instead of weekly therapy?

    Weekly therapy can be transformative. An intensive offers something different.

    Over two days, we have the opportunity to immerse ourselves in the work without the interruptions of everyday life. Rather than spending weeks re-entering the same conversations, we can move more deeply into understanding the patterns beneath the conflict, practicing new ways of relating, and creating meaningful momentum for change.

    Many couples describe the experience as accomplishing months of work in a concentrated and supportive format.

  • Feeling nervous is completely understandable.

    Many couples worry that the experience will be overwhelming, conflictual, or emotionally exhausting. While this work can be deeply meaningful and, at times, challenging, we move at a pace that balances honesty with care. There is space for humor, rest, tenderness, and moments of genuine connection alongside the difficult conversations.

  • No.

    Whether this is your first experience seeking support or you have spent years in therapy, you are welcome here. You do not need to know the "right" language or have previous experience with these practices. Openness and a willingness to engage are enough.

  • Yes.

    As with psychotherapy, your privacy is treated with great care and respect. The details of your intensive remain confidential within the limits of the law and professional ethical guidelines, which will be reviewed with you before we begin our work together.

  • At the conclusion of our time together, we will discuss recommendations for ongoing support based on your unique needs and goals. Some couples choose to continue with ongoing therapy or periodic follow-up sessions, while others leave with tools and practices to integrate independently.

    The intensive is designed to create meaningful movement and clarity, while also supporting sustainable change beyond our two days together.

Couples Therapy Intensive Investment

$4300

Happy to split up payments if needed. Please contact me to discuss.

  • Two 6 hour days of intensive couples Therapy

  • One 1 hour introductory session

  • One 1 hour closing session

  • Tools and handouts

  • Personalized Relational Plan